Oh my goodness, the angst and the drama I have gone into at times trying to make a decision, can anyone relate?
Indecision has to be one of the most torturous states to be in. Fortunately my self - talk eventually moves to something like "for crying out loud, put yourself out of your misery and just make a decision. If it turns out to be wrong...the wonderful thing is you can just make a new decision!"
Sometimes we scare ourselves silly with all of the what ifs, but as soon as we make the decision, the next stepping stone seems to magically appear, and we are soon skipping down the path thinking "What the heck was I so afraid of?"
And then.....of course, other times we make the decision, and are still scared, but not quite as scared as we were!!:)